Confronting A Girl

I write a lot of articles in the view of a girl. I wanted to do something for the guys as well. That is where this topic came from.

Not everyone is born bold. Their are plenty of guys out there that are shy and have a hard time going out and meeting girls. Fear of rejection is usually the biggest reason why shy men don’t approach women.

The first thing I’d like to ask you is: What is the worst that can happen? I’m a shy girl, so I’ve been asked that question before as well. To be honest though, what is the worst? They tell you no, they’re not interested? I used to answer with, “They will laugh in my face.” Which is funny considering, if they were to laugh in your face - they’re obviously not worth your time. In the end, that leaves you as the bigger person. Atleast you tried!

Then your self esteem. If you have low self esteem, it can be obvious. Before trying to approach someone, you need to be confident in your self worth. Work on it. Think of your positive traits. Are you caring and loving? Are you a good friend? Are you a good listener? Do not underestimate yourself!

Practice your ‘lines’. Look in a mirror and practice like you’re talking to a girl. The more you practice the, “Hi! How are you’s?”, the bolder you’ll feel when you approach a girl and use them in real life.

If you work on your self esteem - realize your positive points, and build up your confidence, those possible no’s won’t hurt as much and you’ll be more likely to meet someone who is into you. And all it takes is a little prepping to help fight the case of ’shyness’.