Angel,

I have a boyfriend who has gotten obsessed and too emotionally involoved in the relationship and i am now totally turned off. I constantly find myself telling lies so i don’t have to see him. This can’t be a good sign.

What do i do?? PLEASE help me, I don’t have anyone else to talk to about it.

-Abby

Abby,

Their are 2 different routes you can take with this. The first would be to talk to him and tell him how you feel. Tell him that you feel a bit smothered and that you don’t like how involved he’s become in the relationship. You could tell him that you’d like to take things a little slower. Then if you still feel the way you do, you can always end the relationship.

Or you could just simply explain to him that you don’t like the route this relationship is taking and end it. Maybe just staying friends in the end with him.

It’s never good to feel like you need to lie to someone you’re supposed to care about. If you really don’t feel comfortable in the relationship any more, it may not be meant to be.