Having an affair, and you’re not even the one married?

This happens to a lot of people. Finding a great person that loves you and would do anything for you… except leave their husband/wife.

Their is always someone somewhere who is dating someone that is unavailable. It happens everyday. The question is, what should you do if you are one of them? If you think about it, even if they left their significant other, would you really want to be with someone who, so easily, cheated on someone else? Could you ever truely trust them?

Anyone in this type of relationship should also consider the fact that their married partner could be just using them. In some cases they say they love you, but they only want you for ‘other’ reasons.

In the long run, it is usually best to avoid being the mistress (or whatever the male form of that is) and start dating those that can give all of themself to you. Unless they’re in the process of divorce (or perminantly seperated), they’re probably not all that serious about you. Consider your well being before entering something that could be potentially painful.